7 days

Warped

Newbie
Joined
Jan 25, 2009
Messages
7,546
Reaction score
0
*Thread may contain adult material, Parental Supervision advised*

I've been wanting and trying to do this for some long but I guess you gotta ask for help sometimes. I've been having trouble stopping myself from pleasuring myself. The longest I've stopped was 5 days which was last year near the beginning of winter...and it was really difficult for me. So I'm asking for some advice or knowledge on the subject. I usually pleasure myself 5-7 times a week and it needs to change. I'm shooting for 7 days here without masturbation, any advice on how to do this.

Also keep in mind that this is a natural thing that every guy does, even the guys who say they don't do this naturally do it in their sleep. Also ladies, share your input as well if you have any. No one should feel ashamed about this
 

kineaesth

Newbie
Joined
Dec 14, 2006
Messages
0
Reaction score
309
There is no healthy/unhealthy amount with this, and anyone who says that if you're fapping daily you're unhealthy is full of shit. It's up to you, and obviously you feel like it's becoming something that is getting in the way of your life?

Don't quit for a week, just slowly cut down. Daily is not that uncommon though, what is your problem with what you've got going on?
 

Warped

Newbie
Joined
Jan 25, 2009
Messages
7,546
Reaction score
0
There is no healthy/unhealthy amount with this, and anyone who says that if you're fapping daily you're unhealthy is full of shit. It's up to you, and obviously you feel like it's becoming something that is getting in the way of your life?

Don't quit for a week, just slowly cut down. Daily is not that uncommon though, what is your problem with what you've got going on?
well i noticed that after days i stop, at work i'm getting hit on more at work.
 

Jintor

Didn't Get Temp-Banned
Joined
Dec 15, 2004
Messages
14,783
Reaction score
14
Never be by yourself at any time.
 

Jintor

Didn't Get Temp-Banned
Joined
Dec 15, 2004
Messages
14,783
Reaction score
14
Big, burly men with arms like hairy logs.
 

Stigmata

The Freeman
Joined
Jun 2, 2003
Messages
15,911
Reaction score
371
A week? Pf. I wish I could go a day.

Wait, no I don't.
 

Raziaar

I Hate Custom Titles
Joined
Sep 13, 2003
Messages
29,758
Reaction score
132
I used to be that way. Not anymore. I can easily go weeks or months now. Nocturnal emissions come frequently during that time... which actually feel tons better than doing it myself for some reason.
 

Warped

Newbie
Joined
Jan 25, 2009
Messages
7,546
Reaction score
0
I used to be that way. Not anymore. I can easily go weeks or months now. Nocturnal emissions come frequently during that time... which actually feel tons better than doing it myself for some reason.
Wet dreams are not as satisfying. don't you hate the mess??
 

Raziaar

I Hate Custom Titles
Joined
Sep 13, 2003
Messages
29,758
Reaction score
132
Wet dreams are not as satisfying. don't you hate the mess??
There is the mess yes. But it's actually not as much.

The intensity of the pleasure though is above and beyond... because every time it's happened to me I felt it in and out of dream state... starting in dream and ending realizing what's going on.


But really I have to ask, why even bother trying to stop. Is there something wrong with continuing? I don't do it much because I'm not a very sexual person anymore at this point in my life. I do miss it though.
 

Warped

Newbie
Joined
Jan 25, 2009
Messages
7,546
Reaction score
0
There is the mess yes. But it's actually not as much.

The intensity of the pleasure though is above and beyond... because every time it's happened to me I felt it in and out of dream state... starting in dream and ending realizing what's going on.


But really I have to ask, why even bother trying to stop. Is there something wrong with continuing? I don't do it much because I'm not a very sexual person anymore at this point in my life. I do miss it though.
i wasn't going to stop. i was going to take a break to make things more interesting. i probably won't last a week but if i did, I'll need extra Kleenex thats for sure!
 

Steel.Inferno

Newbie
Joined
Apr 26, 2005
Messages
665
Reaction score
0
I stopped for two weeks a while ago because I was curious how long it would take until I started having wet dreams again. (Answer, ~8 days iirc) As with Raziaar I thought that would be more pleasurable or whatever, at the cost of messiness. (normal is 1-2 times daily, generally to help me sleep and once in the day at some point if I feel like it). Became quite annoying with urges and whatnot after the first week until I caved. Tips... Eh, didn't take anything special for me to quit, just don't.
 

Robert-

Spy
Joined
Aug 6, 2007
Messages
749
Reaction score
3
I start to miss those good ol' circle jerks after a while.
 

DEATHMASTER

The Freeman
Joined
Aug 3, 2005
Messages
12,759
Reaction score
151
5-7 a week? Hahahaha.
Wanking prevents prostate cancer I heard, mang.
 

swan_song1973

Newbie
Joined
Jan 18, 2009
Messages
1,431
Reaction score
0
just find shit to keep you busy and follow the two failsafe rules: go to bed when you're EXTREMELY TIRED and take an early, early shower. that way you're too groggy to fap there. i pulled a two and a half weeker once doing that. got myself a cool $150.
 

Musk

Newbie
Joined
Jan 17, 2008
Messages
652
Reaction score
0
How'd you score $150 by not playing with yourself?
 

Druckles

Party Escort Bot
Joined
Dec 13, 2004
Messages
10,655
Reaction score
15
I'm shooting for 7 days
Hoho.

Masturbation is probably good for you. It probably keeps your sanity. Some people simply need it more than others. If you can't stop, just don't.
 

jet_porkins

Newbie
Joined
Aug 24, 2008
Messages
1,459
Reaction score
0
difficult for me. So I'm asking for some advice or knowledge on the subject. I usually pleasure myself 5-7 times a week and it needs to change. I'm shooting for 7 days here without masturbation, any advice on how to do this.
Base yourself in short increments of 5-25 minutes at a time. Just think "okay, I'm going to get through these first 10 minutes." After that, challenge yourself for 15.
 

CptStern

suckmonkey
Joined
May 5, 2004
Messages
10,321
Reaction score
62
*Thread may contain adult material, Parental Supervision advised*

I've been wanting and trying to do this for some long but I guess you gotta ask for help sometimes. I've been having trouble stopping myself from pleasuring myself. The longest I've stopped was 5 days which was last year near the beginning of winter...and it was really difficult for me. So I'm asking for some advice or knowledge on the subject. I usually pleasure myself 5-7 times a week and it needs to change. I'm shooting for 7 days here without masturbation, any advice on how to do this.

Also keep in mind that this is a natural thing that every guy does, even the guys who say they don't do this naturally do it in their sleep. Also ladies, share your input as well if you have any. No one should feel ashamed about this
why would you want to do that? 5-7 times a week? that's nothing, I've done that in a day AND had sex with a real person
 

Sheepo

The Freeman
Joined
Apr 9, 2007
Messages
10,578
Reaction score
79
Base yourself in short increments of 5-25 minutes at a time. Just think "okay, I'm going to get through these first 10 minutes." After that, challenge yourself for 15.
****ing quicktime events.
 

Dodo

Tank
Joined
Aug 30, 2004
Messages
2,141
Reaction score
0
Take a photo of your grandma and make it your desktop wallpaper.

-dodo

PS: dont stop, beat that trouser snake silly...
 

Shakermaker

Party Escort Bot
Joined
Sep 16, 2003
Messages
9,253
Reaction score
2
I don't do it much because I'm not a very sexual person anymore at this point in my life. I do miss it though.
Are you 97 years old, did something horrible happen or did you become a clergyman? Because other than that I can't really understand why you'd stop fapping, especially if you evidently miss it. Sorry for being so nosy but I was wondering.
 

Druckles

Party Escort Bot
Joined
Dec 13, 2004
Messages
10,655
Reaction score
15
Some people have lower sex drives than others.

Some people get depressed or sad and lose the will to do anything.
 
Top