Any suggestion in delighting a girl?

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  1. bbson john

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    When your girlfriend is unhappy, what will you do to delight her?
     
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    Depends what made her unhappy, doesn't it?
     
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    hanky panky :E
     
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    you venture south, my brother, into uncharted territory
     
  5. bbson john

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    Sounds tricky. South means....
     
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    Literally go south. Invade Vietnam.
     
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    South means downwards? You bad boy. :eek:

    Men solve a problem with sex, while women have sex only after they solved the problem.
     
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    Don't know how you managed to draw the subject 'sex' into a discussion about invading Vietnam..
     
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    - you venture south, my brother, into uncharted territory

    ^ I mean this sentence :p

    Okay, back to topic...
     
  10. bliink

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    Did you actually upset a real person, or are you just fishing for general ideas?
     
  11. bbson john

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    That's not really that important...
     
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    I think it is.. I mean, there are different ways you'd make someone happy based on if you say, lost their pencil vs ran over their pet cat.
     
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    General solution. :rolleyes:
     
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    yeah, but girls are generally really tricky in.. "delighting".

    a good bet would be to say you're really sorry and are completely wrong and wish you could repay her somehow

    but in general it really really depends on how she got pissed in the first place. be really generous in some way at least, not monetary but just show that you really care about her well being.
    listen to her, do something together or for her, anything. really depends on the situation
     
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    Let specific it. If I buy a "inappropriate" for a girl, and upset her, what should I do?
     
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    Hahahahaha. I love you.
     
  17. bliink

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    I'd say the problem was communication.
    Just say you were trying to make her happy, but made a mistake and obviously made a misjudgement. Above all, you wanted to make her happy. Don't say this aggressively, or it will seem like an attack. Don't be too soft or it will seem meaningless.

    If it was an honest mistake, you need to tell her there was no malicious intention, you were not deliberately trying to upset her etc.. she should accept that.

    EDIT: ;)
     
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    Women is not a rational animal. Will she listen your analysis? :p
     
  19. ríomhaire

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    Well, bliink is one of the qualified members when it comes to the fairer sex.
     
  20. Slacker

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    Ask her to forgive you while you guys have sex. It'll probably increase her chances of giving a positive response.
     
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    ohhh no I'm not.. just because I am one doesn't mean I speak the language!
    do not blindly follow relationship advice from me haha
     
  22. PriNcE oF SpAcE

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    you bought her bottomless panties!?:rolling:
     
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    As far as I know, flowers work like magic. But what do I know... :(
     
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    How about bottom-opened panties?
     
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    Flowers are expensive. D:
     
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    like the others said, say you thought she would like it, but you made a mistake
     
  27. bliink

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    Girlfriends are expensive
     
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    same thing.

    and also OMG telll me you didn't! or atleast that you intended it as a joke! because that is seriously stupid, if that's what you bought her.:monkee:
     
  29. The Brick

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    Main reason why I'm not looking for one... Exactly the reason why I don't want kids.
     
  30. bbson john

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    I didn't. I didn't buy panties for her.
     
  31. ríomhaire

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    Well, girl advice from a girl (any girl) > girl advice from 99% of guys on this forum
     
  32. The Brick

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    What about the "don't listen to girls, they have no clue what they want" advice?
     
  33. -Psy-

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    Buy her a DVD Boxset of Friends and both sitdown and watch it together.
     
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    ...and commit suicide afterwards.
     
  35. bbson john

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    The worst gift for a girl is actually a gift which the boy can share with.
     
  36. -Psy-

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    Yeah. That's always helpful.
     
  37. CrazyHarij

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    Then what the heck did you do?
     
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    Stop questioning me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *head exploded*
     
  39. -Psy-

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    But you made a topic for us to suggest some ways to delight a girl...

    The least you could do is tell us.
     
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    you bought her a dildo didnt you :O
     

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